My mother told me stories
When I was four
Told me
That the prince took the princess’s hands
And led her to the castle
Told me
My life would be the same as the princess
And someone would take my hands too
But it was different from
What she told me
While I was his daughter
Instead of coddling me
With all the love he had in his hands
He beat me
With all the power they had
While I was his sister
With the hands that he should have used
To lead me to school
Instead he forced me with those hands
To an unknown home
While I was his wife
Instead of defending me against lies
He deprived me and locked me
In a dark world apart from my rights
I was his mother
Waiting to hear sweet things from him
He said the cruelest things instead
Which hurt me to death
And even now
They think of me as a machine
Which produces boys
Instead of a human who is the same as them
Instead of thinking of me
As a daughter, sister, mother, and partner
I am the victim of tradition
In the past, present, and future
by Arifa, age 14
Photo of Mont Saint-Michel Castle, Normandy, by Nicolas Raymond.
Arifa — I am so pleased to see your powerful poem on the blog. Besides giving us many truths about the plight of women your poem is beautifully worded. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. All best wishes, Nancy